Accepted! What It Feels Like!

Have you ever doubted yourself?  You know, asked a few self-defeating questions.  Am I good enough?  Will I ever get accepted to medical school?  Most of us have been there at some point in the journey.    Chasing the med school dream isn’t easy.  What is easy however, is giving up.  How do you combat that urge to quit?  How do you fend off the doubting voice in your mind?  Here’s one suggestion; anytime you get that nasty feeling, take a moment to envision what it will be like when you get that message, “Congratulations, you have been ACCEPTED!”  So, what thoughts will run through your mind when that letter is in your hand?

    1. Is this real? Yep, you might have a moment of disbelief. Maybe your best friend is playing a real cruel joke on you.  You’ve waited for this moment for so long and it’s finally here.  Or is it? You’ll pinch yourself, slap yourself, and throw ice cold water on your face.  After all that, you’ll look down at the paper in your hand and see that it’s still there.
    2. THIS IS REAL! Naturally this thought will follow.  This is the moment when you realize you’ll likely become a doctor.   You’ll see an image of yourself in a white coat.  You’ll see yourself holding a patient’s hand.  You’ll see yourself teaching medical students.  Yep…THIS IS REAL!
    3. Am I ready? That nasty little guy named Mr. Doubt will try to sneak into your mind and steal your joy.  He’s going to try to lure you into the comparison game.  You’ll wonder what schools your classmates will come from.  What their MCAT scores will be.  Let me give you one piece of advice.  WHO CARES!!!  Forget about all that and just bask in the moment.
    4. When do I start? I get it, you’re excited.  After you’ve evicted Mr. Doubt from your brain, you’ll feel like you can take on the world and take it on now.  The excitement to be a doctor will be palpable and you’ll be skimming your letter and searching websites to find your start date.  Slow down buddy.  You’ll get plenty of medical school, just enjoy your last few weeks of freedom.
    5. Let’s celebrate! Now it’s time to start making those phone calls.  Call your mama, daddy, siblings, aunty, uncle, friends, teachers, pets….whoever you can reach and let them know.  Share the excitement with your loved ones.  Get a group of people together, and have a celebratory dinner.  You’ve done it!

Keep your eyes on the prize.  Being a premedical student is challenging, but when you get accepted, you’ll realize it was all worth it.  So, what thoughts do you think will (or did) go through your mind when you get your acceptance letter?

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Ananna Kazi

OMG, Dr. Dale! Thank you for the post! I will read it every week 😀

“Congratulations, you have been ACCEPTED!” I have to remind myself!

I am still on no. 3. Cant wait to start it already, so I can stop doubting myself!

6 years ago

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Tiana Clemons

Thank you so much for posting this! It’s right on time as I fight off those self-doubting questions. I’ve gotten to the point where I can’t ask for input nymorr because it’s overwhelming and sending my mind in so many different directions. As I study for MCAT I’ll go to sleep and woke up to two thoughts – 1. You’re accepted 2. The white coat

6 years ago

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William Faulk

This whole statement is simple yet powerful. Sometimes we have all the knowledge we need in our heads to help ourselves succeed, but often need a little help tapping into it. Reading this when you feel a little unsure of yourself or overwhelmed, is just the thing to get you in the frame of mind you need to be in to continue on to your destiny! Thank you Dr. Dale

6 years ago

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Aishat Motolani

I think these five points captures exactly how I am going to feel. The medical school application process is grueling and we all apply with the HOPES of getting in. So, I will probably cry for the first two hours and then end it with a celebration. Woohoo!!!

6 years ago

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Dania Drewing

Thank you for this!

6 years ago

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Alex Trullet

Thank you Doctor Dale! I am still in the beginning stage of my premed journey and will still be for the next year or so but I will be a doctor one day and I need to stop doubting myself I dropped to a 2.5 GPA when I started college and after I realized how college works I brought my GPA to a 3.0 I know this is a low GPA for med school but I will bring my GPA up to that. premed star community has showed me that I can do it even when I think I cant when I doubt myself I can come to this premed star and the people on here are so encouraging and brings my sprites back up to were I say I will be a doctor one day instead of saying I wish I can be. So thanks for this wonderful site.

6 years ago