Most times, I wonder why the opposite of every good thing exists. Don’t we all strive for a utopian world? Every profession is trying to make the wrong right, the worse better, and the broken fixed. So, why does the other side of the coin counters the endowments and lushness of life? Well, I think the answer can be simplified into a single word. That word is gratitude. For we humans to understand the value of the good, the bad has to permeate our existence.

As we sit right now, in our comfy homes, as the day melts into the night, the world is in chaos. Children are starving due to famine, people are dying from injustice and war, and women are having stillbirths. The list goes on. Understandably, we do not like to think of these world problems because it disrupts our happy bubble. How about if we think of these plights when we stumble in life or when we presume ourselves as failures. Ruminating on these thoughts creates a mindset filled with gratitude. You become appreciative of where you are in life. You give thanks that your circumstances were not any worse, and you move to action or pray for those who are in distress. You slide into a great space where you can set things right and rise above any obstacles. Gratitude makes you content, and contentment makes you happy.

When someone dies, you should be appreciative of life. It may be a day more or a minute more; you have to make it count. If you are rejected from a position, you should be thankful. It may reposition you in a better place to reach for the stars. If you are treated in an unfair manner, be thankful. You now know the importance of kindness. When you become sick, be thankful. You now understand the value of having a sound health.

Gratitude lurks in every darkness, waiting for us to behold its worth. Take a minute and look around you. Now, take another minute and look within. You have all these armies of cells working daily to keep you alive. You have a great network cheering you on to live your best life. You have passions, hobbies, and routines that feed your soul. You have a foundation- your beliefs– which guides your steps. Why would anyone focus on the worst possible outcome? Why would anyone begin to sow seeds of doubts that only bear fruits of fear? Live now and be grateful! Your thoughts will grow into actions, and your actions will create your tomorrow. 

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